Not to get too personal...

But....

You are basically asking for a favor and it sounds like you are looking to get around paying child support.

In another thread you explained the situation how you were kind of scammed into paying child support for a kid that was not yours.

I think thats an important piece of information here. Otherwise it sounds like someone is going to help you back out on a child that is legitamitely yours.

 

very true... didn't even think of it that way. i just thought of the fact that I have been unable to save a dime for situations like this... hmmm.. to find the thread...

EDIT
so the situation is I have an ex girlfriend that lives in Washington State that decided to place me on the birth cert for a child. I have spent the last two years fighting and trying to get the state to order DNA testing to prove the child is mine so that i can then take responsibility. The state won't force the testing (why should they? they lose a father they assigned if they do) and the mother won't go (why should she? she gets over $1500 a month out of me $1500 for one kid who is almost 2 not including daycare) so i have been fighting and trying to get things right. It just seems that with the laws the way they are us fathers are toast even if we aren't the actual father. If you don't believe me on this do a search about it and you will see what i mean.

Anyway towards Jameson's comment, i am not trying to scam anything here. I just need work of some sort to tide between jobsor maybe even be my new job. If things were under the table i could actually pay bills and put some money aside (while still doing my state decided duty, just at a lower rate) I would appreciate any help that i can get...

Thanks

 

I am looking for something that i could do while in between jobs as the child support

Might sound gay... but go drive pie... 4-5 hours a night, cash in pocket at the end of the night, paycheck that can be garnished....(keeps the child support fairy happy) and since its evening.. your day is free to do things, like find a career post.

My support is $1100, no way in Hell is Domino's paying enough to cover that, but it takes the edge off enough, that they don't get too excited while I find a day job/get my current "business" off the ground and out of the crapper.

 

Remind me never to get divorced.

 

was never married and only with the mother for about 4 months. If you look at the laws all someone has to do is put your name on the birth cert and you are the father.. whether you are or not.

I will have to check into delivering here. thatmay work.

 

If kids involved, don't. Not worth the $$$$$$$$$$$$$, and the missed time from the kids life.

Obviously certain circumstances prevail.. however My support is higher than any one of my neighbors mortgage....

 

Wait. WTF?!

Are you bound by any sort of non-compete clauses?

I'd been looking into Liberty Mutual, and I can ask Charlie to check if there's anything open at Great West.

 

nope no clause..

 

dna test is all that is necessary here.

 

if only the state cared about it. The state will not order one as they don't have to. the mother will not voluntarily go as she will lose the $1500+ she is getting from me. It seems simple enough but really isn't. the state is fighting tooth and nail as doing the DNA test and me not being the father could push the child into poverty, which isn't in the child's best interest which is all they care about.

Wait. WTF?!

i was let go after i saw you yesterday. came back from lunch and was walked out.

 

yeah so back on topic....

jobs?

 

Ugh, that sucks Ryan. I can't help you on the job front, but keep your chin up!

 

about the child support, just because you are unemployed does not remove the payment requirements you will go into arrears and owe sh!tloads..

I am familiar with your plight... have you gone to a father rights organizations for help?

http://www.fathersandfamilies.org

You should be able to ask for visitation rights ( heck sue for custody and settle for rights. When you get to visit give her a quick cheek swab for a paternaty test ( she is your kid BTW the mother gave you those rights by putting your name on the BC>)

It'll give you something to do while the supprot bills pile up. But remeber uless you know you can;t have kids you may get info that she/he is your kid.... be ready for that too...