Ok, first off you need to use fucking commas and periods in you grammar. I have no clue what the hell you're thinking when it's one big, run-on sentence.
Now...
Is there oil in the coolant? Yes or no?
Is there coolant in the oil? Yes or no?
Is there white smoke coming out of the exhaust? Yes or no?
Is there blue smoke coming out of the exhaust? Yes or no?
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If the answers to the above questions are no, then you probably have a bad turbo. I'm sure you can sure the forum for similar symptoms in other posts.
Good luck.